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My partner will not answer basic questions about our lease

I keep thinking about this and I do not know if I made it worse. This happened during a lease renewal talk. This is about my partner.

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#Situations · Aug 31

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I keep thinking about this and I do not know if I made it worse.

This happened during a lease renewal talk. This is about my partner. The problem was that my partner would not give a straight answer about renewing our lease, so I showed up with numbers when they wanted reassurance.

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I kept pushing for dates and numbers even after they said they were overwhelmed.

They had quietly paid a family debt. The landlord needs an answer tomorrow. I keep wondering if I made the whole thing worse.

I think I wanted reassurance, but I made it about numbers. Would this bother you too?

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