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I saw a deleted message and could not let it go

I am still upset and I do not know if I am being fair. This happened after seeing a deleted message. This is about my partner and their former close friend.

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#Situations · Aug 31

#Situations

I am still upset and I do not know if I am being fair.

This happened after seeing a deleted message. This is about my partner and their former close friend. The problem was that I saw that my partner deleted a message from someone they used to be close with, and I remembered the exact time it disappeared.

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I asked why it was deleted. They said they just did not want a fight, which honestly made me feel worse.

The message was deleted to avoid my predictable reaction. Location sharing is now switched off. Now I do not know what to do with the information.

I hate that one deleted message can make me this suspicious. Would this bother you too?

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