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How do I keep a murder-mystery dinner moving when a guest won't reveal a scheduled clue?

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The second envelope told my cousin to read her clue aloud. She tucked it under her plate and said, 'My character would never admit that.'

I'd bought a murder-mystery dinner pack and invited eight people. The instructions said clues in those envelopes should be revealed at that stage. I'd explained that before we started. She was enjoying playing a secretive heiress, while the other guests were waiting for information they needed to make their guesses.

I asked her to read it in character. She said following a script so closely defeated the point of acting. I ended up reading the clue myself, and she barely joined the rest of the game.

How do I apologise for taking over her moment without accepting that one person's performance can stop everyone else's mystery? I'd like to host again, but with a clearer agreement about where improvising fits.

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You can apologise for reading her clue without asking first while maintaining that the scheduled information had to reach the group. Next time, agree that delivery can be improvised but required clues still get revealed.

Could the heiress reveal it reluctantly, accidentally or while blaming another character? That would preserve her interpretation and give everyone the clue. You're asking her to fit her performance into the game, not to stop performing altogether.

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