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I leaked one private message and let someone else get blamed

I have been avoiding this because it makes me look bad. The short version is that I shared one private message after my friend's breakup, then watched everyone blame the wrong person for the leak.

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#Situations · Aug 31

#Situations

I have been avoiding this because it makes me look bad.

The short version is that I shared one private message after my friend's breakup, then watched everyone blame the wrong person for the leak.

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I deleted my own chat history first. The leak exposed a real lie.

The friend group blames the wrong person. I could clear it up with one message, but that would also admit I was the leak. I should have owned up before other people got dragged into it.

I know the message mattered, but I still should not have shared it. I do not feel good about it.

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