AITA for turning off captions during movie night after one guest complained?
AITAI host a monthly movie night. My friend Theo has mild hearing loss and always asks for captions, so I keep them on.
At the latest screening, another guest, Nina, complained that captions revealed punchlines before actors delivered them. She asked whether we could turn them off for a comedy.
Theo was in the kitchen. I switched them off and planned to ask when he returned.
The movie resumed before he sat down. He watched for fifteen minutes, then quietly asked for captions. Nina groaned, and I said, “Let’s try it without them just this once.”
Theo left at intermission.
He later told me he could follow most dialogue but had to work so hard that the evening stopped being social. Nina says she also had a legitimate access preference because captions distract her and affect comic timing.
I could have chosen a dubbed film, moved Nina farther from the screen or held a quick group discussion. Instead I treated the setting needed by one person as negotiable because another person complained more visibly.
I turned captions back on after Theo left. Nobody enjoyed the second half.
I thought compromise meant everyone tolerating some inconvenience. What I actually did was ask one guest to tolerate not fully understanding the movie so another could enjoy jokes a fraction of a second later.