I want to move my Animal Crossing character, but I'm our shared island's representative
GamingMy sister pointed at the museum and said, "You're not taking all of this with you." I had only said I wanted my Animal Crossing character on my own Switch after moving out.
We share an island in New Horizons. I started it, so my character is the resident representative; she has since done much of the decorating. I thought I could move my house and leave her island as it was. [Nintendo says the representative can't be transferred individually; moving that resident requires transferring the entire island](https://www.nintendo.com/au/support/articles/how-to-transfer-an-individual-resident-to-a-new-island-animal-crossing-new-horizons/).
Both of our original-model Switch consoles are available, but we haven't started any transfer. The old one will stay at home with her. I don't want to treat being the first player as ownership of everything we made, and she doesn't want me to feel I have to leave my character behind without discussing it.
What should we decide before touching the transfer menus? The technical restriction has turned a simple move into a choice about whose progress and familiar place stay on which console.