Everyone is being asked for $25 for the boss’s gift. Can I give less without explaining?
Career / WorkThe collection message said, “Suggested contribution: $25.” The next line listed everyone’s name with a blank beside it.
Our manager is moving to another office. She’s been kind to me, and I’d happily write something in her farewell card. I don’t want to put $25 into the gift this week. I could give $5, but the organiser has been replying in the group chat with “Thanks, paid!” beside each name.
Nobody has said we must contribute. It still feels as though a lower amount or no payment will become visible, and I don’t want my appreciation measured in the collection.
Would you send a smaller amount privately, ask the organiser to stop listing payments, or simply sign the card? I’d like to be courteous without explaining my household spending to colleagues.