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At a buffet, my friend says I should keep eating to get my money's worth. How do I opt out of the second plate?

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I'd finished a plate I enjoyed and was comfortably done. My friend pointed towards the dessert counter. "You've paid for it. Don't waste the chance."

We'd chosen the buffet because he wanted to try several dishes without choosing one main. I liked that idea too, but I hadn't expected it to come with a challenge to fit every section into lunch. When I declined another plate, he said we could have gone somewhere cheaper if I'd told him I wasn't going to make use of it.

I don't want to argue about how much either of us can eat or leave food I didn't want on a plate. How would you explain that choosing from the buffet and enjoying one meal was worthwhile to me? I'd still be happy to sit with him while he eats dessert; I just don't want to join every trip back to the counter.

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The choice of dishes was part of what you paid for and enjoyed. You don't need to make the visit valuable in the same way he does. Tell him that you were happy with lunch and would like him to enjoy his dessert without recruiting you into another serving.

He may be disappointed that you aren't continuing the exploration together. Offer to stay and chat, which you've already said you'd enjoy. That separates companionship from the requirement to take another plate.

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