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AITA for correcting my aunt in front of everyone when she called my shop-bought cake homemade?

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"And this one is my niece's secret family recipe," my aunt said, pointing to the cake I'd brought for our community craft group's supply fundraiser.

I interrupted: "It isn't. I bought it at the supermarket on my way here."

My aunt stopped talking, laughed awkwardly and moved to the next table. Later she told me I had made her look dishonest in front of the people she had spent all morning welcoming.

I had originally said I would bake a cake. A work deadline ran over, so I bought an $18 chocolate cake instead. At pickup, my aunt asked, "Did you manage the cake?" and I said, "Yes, got one." I didn't explain the change. I also took it out of the shop box and put it on my own stand because the box looked battered.

There wasn't a sign claiming it was homemade. My aunt's announcement was the first time I heard her describe it that way. I corrected her quickly because someone beside me was asking whether I could bake the same thing for their daughter's birthday. I didn't want the conversation to keep building on something untrue.

My aunt says she would have corrected herself if I'd whispered to her, and that the family-recipe line was just her trying to make my contribution sound special. She's upset that I left her to recover in front of everyone.

I stayed, helped serve and told her afterward that I should have explained the purchase at pickup. She wants me to apologize for the interruption too. I think the correction needed to happen, but I can see that I helped create the wrong impression. AITA for saying it out loud?

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Your aunt was wrong about the recipe, but she wasn't knowingly selling your shop cake as your baking. You had promised to bake, answered as though the task was done, and presented it on your own stand. Owning that sequence matters more than proving that the words you said in public were accurate.

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