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The club says badminton is beginner-friendly, but I can't find a suitable partner. What can I ask for?

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"Stay at the net and leave the hard ones," my doubles partner told me before we started. Then, after three rallies, he said I was standing in the wrong place. By the end of the game I was hesitating even when the shuttle came straight to me.

I joined this evening because the organiser called it beginner-friendly. We have twelve adults sharing two courts, and partners are picked by the people waiting. I ended up with the same stronger player in four of my five games. He wasn't insulting, but every mistake became an explanation while the other pair waited.

When I asked about rotating partners, another regular said, "Some of us only get one night to play properly." That's fair. Nobody signed up to be my unpaid coach. But I pay the same $10 session fee and don't know how to become part of this group if the choice is constant correction or sitting out.

I'd be willing to book a separate lesson. For this session, would it be reasonable to ask for a partner rotation and feedback only when I request it? Or does beginner-friendly just mean I'm welcome to attend, while finding a suitable game remains my responsibility?

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Ask the organiser what beginner-friendly means in practice: mixed games, a dedicated court, introductions to compatible partners, or simply open entry. Those are different offers. You don't need to accuse the regulars of being unfriendly to say that the current picking arrangement left you with one partner and an evening of instructions you hadn't requested.

The stronger player may think he's helping you stay involved. Give him a usable boundary: "One suggestion before the game is helpful; could we play through the rallies and leave the rest until I ask?" He can agree, decline, or suggest another pairing. That's clearer than trying to signal discomfort while he believes he's being generous.

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