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Should I buy six concert tickets before everyone has transferred their share?

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The group chat had four thumbs-up reactions and one unread message when the ticket queue opened. I needed to choose six seats together or release them.

There are six of us including me. Tickets are $80 each, and I could put up the $480 today without missing a bill. I've already received $160 from two friends. Two others reacted but haven't sent anything; the last hasn't replied. We'd discussed this concert, but nobody agreed that I would commit their money before hearing back.

The booking screen says ordinary change-of-mind refunds aren't available. I don't know whether we'd find another friend to take an unwanted ticket. My partner says the silent friend will probably be delighted I got seats. I think that's a generous guess to make with my money.

Would you book only for people who've explicitly confirmed and paid, take the chance on the whole group, or let this set of seats go? I enjoy organising things, but I don't want that role to include buying an $80 surprise for someone who hasn't answered.

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The unread message is different from an unpaid confirmation. One friend hasn't even made the decision you're about to make for them. Don't let the desire for six adjacent seats make those two situations look interchangeable.

Two friends have already paid you, so tell them what you can actually book before changing the group size. They sent $80 for this concert, but may have imagined the whole group together. A quick update gives them a chance to understand the changed plan.

If you choose to front a confirmed friend's share, agree on that separately. 'Please get my ticket; I'll send $80 tomorrow' is clearer than interpreting a reaction as consent to a repayment arrangement. You can be comfortable with one and decline the other.

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