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Is a cheaper room workable if the live-in owner allows only microwave meals?

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At the room viewing, the owner pointed to a microwave and said, "That's your cooking area. I don't want frying smells in the house." The advert had said kitchen access, and I had imagined using the hob a few evenings a week.

The room is £650 a month, including the agreed bills. The other room I've shortlisted is £760, with a shared kitchen where ordinary cooking is part of the proposed arrangement. Both owners live in their homes. I haven't signed either agreement.

The cheaper room is quieter and nearer work. I could manage microwave meals sometimes, but I enjoy cooking and use it to keep my food budget predictable. When I asked whether we could agree a couple of evenings for hob use, the owner said he had tried exceptions before and regretted them. He wasn't rude; he seemed clear about how he wanted his home to function.

Should I ask once more about a precise arrangement, or accept that the room may be a poor fit? The £110 saving matters, but I don't want to move in expecting a rule he has explicitly stated to soften once he gets to know me.

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The advert gave you a reasonable question to ask, and the viewing supplied an answer you don't much like. Get the proposed kitchen access described precisely in the agreement before comparing the offers. The word "access" could otherwise keep doing different work for each of you.

The £110 difference is worth putting beside a realistic food budget for the way you would actually live there. Don't assume a microwave-only routine is either impossible or automatically cheaper. You can decide that cooking itself is worth paying for without making it a moral argument about the owner.

He has already explained that previous exceptions didn't work for him. Another proposal needs to be genuinely different and easy to answer; otherwise you may be asking him to repeat a refusal while hoping familiarity will change it.

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