How do I tell my husband our wedding didn't feel like the best day of my life?
WeddingsHe keeps saying, "Wasn't it the best day?" I keep saying yes. We got married two weeks ago, and I loved marrying him. I didn't love being at the wedding.
I spent part of the reception sorting a table-plan mistake, missed my starter and was worrying about the time when we finally danced. He remembers the dance as the point where everything felt relaxed. I remember trying to stop counting what was left to do.
Friends are sending happy photographs, and I can see good moments in them. I don't want to announce that the whole wedding was a failure. I also don't want to keep endorsing a description that doesn't feel like mine.
How do I talk about it without asking him to give up the day he enjoyed? The bit I most want him to understand is that I felt responsible for it running, even while it was happening.