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How can I ask for help in an adult maths class without feeling as though I'm holding everyone back?

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I knew the recipe said three quarters of a cup. When the worksheet asked for a different batch size, I wrote a number, crossed it out, and waited for the tutor to put the answer on the board.

I'm forty-eight and taking an evening numeracy class before applying for a course next year. In the first lesson the tutor said, "This is probably a quick recap for most of you." I laughed with everyone else. It wasn't a recap for me.

Now I copy the worked answers neatly enough that my page looks finished. The tutor can't see where I got lost. I want to ask about the step between the two lines, but I imagine the rest of the room waiting while I admit I never understood it.

Would it be better to speak after class, send the unfinished attempt, or ask during the example? I enrolled to learn this. At the moment I'm learning how to make my notebook look reassuring.

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The crossed-out attempt gives the tutor more information than the copied solution. Show the point where you stopped knowing what to do. You don't need to present a general confession about all the maths you have ever missed.

The 'quick recap' remark may have been meant to ease the class into the topic. It also gave you a reason to conceal your starting point. A private conversation could say that plainly without accusing the tutor of intending to embarrass you.

Ask what background the course expects and what help is available for that particular step. If another level would fit better, discuss it; don't conclude from one confusing example that you chose the wrong course.

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