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Is walking my apartment stairs a real routine if I feel ridiculous doing it?

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The most convenient place for me to move after work is the stairwell in my apartment building. It is indoors, free and twenty steps from my front door. It also makes me feel like a suspicious person who has forgotten which floor she lives on.

I started using the stairs during a week of cold rain. I put on sneakers, walked from the second floor to the sixth and came back down at an easy pace. The entire thing took fifteen minutes. No drive, no membership and no argument with the weather. Practically, it was perfect.

Socially, it was strange. On the third trip I met a neighbor carrying groceries. She stepped aside, then saw me again four minutes later and asked whether the elevator was broken. Another evening the maintenance worker opened the door while I was turning around on the landing. I explained that I was exercising. He nodded politely in a way that made the explanation feel worse.

Now I listen for footsteps and pause so I will not pass the same person twice. That defeats the simplicity. I know the stairwell is shared space and I am not blocking it, playing music or doing anything unsafe. Yet exercise in a place not labeled for exercise feels like a small public performance.

The obvious answer is to tolerate being seen. Still, I wonder whether there is an etiquette I am missing. Should I choose a quiet hour, do one continuous route instead of repeated laps, or mention it to building management? I do not want permission for ordinary stair use. I also do not want to become the neighbor whose routine makes everyone else calculate an escape route.

Would you keep going until it felt normal, move the routine somewhere less convenient, or change the format so the repetition is less noticeable?

Discussion

5 community replies

@softfocus

You are using the stairs for their intended purpose. Keep the landings clear, yield to anyone carrying things and skip headphones that block awareness. Beyond that, brief awkwardness does not require a new location.

@JulesAfterDark

If someone asks, “Just getting a few indoor laps in” is enough. A short ordinary answer makes the activity sound exactly as ordinary as it is.

@MorganSays

Do not add a long explanation about weather or gyms. Extra detail signals that the neighbor is being asked to judge the plan.

@TheoInTransit

A continuous route could feel less repetitive: stairs up, elevator down, then a hallway loop if permitted. Keep the version that reduces self-consciousness without adding real inconvenience.

@northstar88

Check posted building rules rather than seeking special approval. If there is no restriction and you are not obstructing access, management does not need to turn the routine into an event.