I bought the rest of my son's fundraiser stock so he could say he sold out
ParentingThere were seven rolls of wrapping paper left in the box. My son had sold five.
He's twelve. His club was raising money, and he had been excited about being responsible for his own little order sheet.
He asked two neighbors, showed the catalog to his grandparents and spent an evening explaining the designs to anyone who sat near him. Then he ran out of people he felt comfortable asking.
I bought the remaining rolls.
I told myself we always needed wrapping paper. We now own enough silver snowflakes to cover a small parade, but the explanation sounded reasonable at the time.
The club organizer congratulated him on selling the whole box. He accepted the congratulations. I stood behind him holding my phone and felt pleased that I had arranged a good ending.
In the car, he asked whether he should tell her I had bought most of it.
I said parents were allowed to buy things.
He said that wasn't what he meant.
He wanted to know whether sold out meant the same thing when one person bought the leftovers so he wouldn't have to bring them back.
I had been so eager to protect him from an unfinished box that I hadn't thought about the awkwardness of the completed story.
We didn't return my purchases or pretend he hadn't made any sales. He had asked people. Some bought things. That part was real.
At the next meeting, he told the organizer he had sold five rolls to other people and that I had bought the rest. She said thanks for explaining and moved on to the order totals.
There was no humiliation. There was also no second round of congratulations for his salesmanship.
I don't think every parent purchase contaminates a fundraiser. Buying something you want is ordinary. In this case, I wanted the number beside his name to look finished.
Next time I can ask how the leftover stock is handled before deciding it needs rescuing. I can support the club without giving my son a success story he has to edit afterward.
We used one silver roll for a birthday present last week. He suggested putting the wrapping paper budget in his name.