AITA for rejecting an apology because my friend filmed it for social media?

My friend Brooke embarrassed me at a game night by reading an old message from my phone aloud. I had handed her the phone to show a photo. She swiped too far, saw a dramatic text I had sent after a bad date, and performed it for the room before I could stop her.

Everyone laughed. I laughed too, then went home early.

The next day I told Brooke that I felt exposed and did not want to see her for a while. She apologized by text, but the message included several explanations about thinking I would find it funny. I did not answer.

A week later she asked me to meet at a coffee shop because she wanted to apologize properly. When I arrived, she was sitting at a table with a small gift bag and her phone propped against a cup.

She began speaking before I sat down. She said she had confused being entertaining with being kind, that my private messages were not material, and that she was sorry.

It was a good apology.

Then I noticed the recording light.

I asked whether she was filming. Brooke said yes, but only so she could post a short accountability video after I approved it. She runs a modest humor account, and several people who attended game night follow her. She said the public embarrassment deserved a public correction.

I reached over and stopped the recording. I told her the apology no longer counted because she had again turned my discomfort into content.

Brooke started crying. She said she was trying to take responsibility in the same public space where the joke had spread. She promised she would never post my face or name and showed me a draft caption that referred only to “a friend.”

I left without opening the gift bag.

Two mutual friends think I was too absolute. They say a flawed apology can still be sincere, and Brooke had correctly identified what she did wrong. Another friend thinks the camera proved she learned the vocabulary of accountability without learning privacy.

Brooke has deleted the recording and sent me a screenshot showing it is gone. She has not contacted me again.

I wanted an apology centered on me, not an audience. But saying it “did not count” may have been a way to avoid deciding whether I was ready to forgive her.

AITA for rejecting it completely?