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Should we buy a rug after a downstairs neighbour complains about our child's footsteps?

Illustration of a woven rug with a folded edge and a toy car on a hard kitchen floor.Housing

Our downstairs neighbour knocked at 7:15 and said, "It sounds like someone is running circuits above my bed." Our four-year-old had been walking between the bathroom and kitchen while I got breakfast ready. The night before, he had also rolled a toy car along the same floor, which probably wasn't helping.

We live in a rented flat with hard flooring. She works late and says the early movement wakes her. My partner says we can't teach a child to hover, and I agree. I also believe she is hearing something disruptive even if our son isn't doing anything dramatic.

A rug large enough for that area would cost us about $160. We don't know how much difference it would make. The building manager has offered to look at the floor arrangements but hasn't visited yet. We haven't received a formal notice or a confirmed explanation of what carries the sound.

Would buying the rug now be a reasonable gesture, or would it invite an expectation that breakfast has to happen silently? I want to reduce avoidable noise without turning normal movement around our home into something our child is constantly told off for.

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The toy car is a useful place to start because it is an activity you can move or change without asking your child to be silent. You can acknowledge that part of the complaint while keeping ordinary trips to the bathroom in a different category.

Your partner's hovering line captures the impossible version of her request, but she may be asking for relief from one particular sound at one particular hour. Have the next conversation about the noise she actually hears, rather than debating whether children are allowed to move.

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