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Should I change a family cinema plan when the ten-year-old is unsure about the film?

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My nephew watched the trailer, then asked, 'Does the creature keep coming back when they think it's gone?' My sister said he'd be fine because she was coming too.

We're planning a cinema trip in the UK. The film on the booking page is marked 12A, and he's ten. He loves the costumes and has been drawing the main character, but the trailer's dark corridor made him cover the lower half of the screen.

His two older cousins are keen to see it. My sister says changing the film would make him feel like the little one who ruined everyone's plan. I suggested that we ask what he wants after checking the film's content advice. She thinks that will only make him more wary.

I'm organising the tickets, and nobody has paid yet. I don't want to override his mother, but I also don't want his enthusiasm for a character treated as an answer to whether he wants this whole film. How do we make the choice without putting the family's disappointment on him?

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[BBFC's 12A guidance](https://www.bbfc.co.uk/rating/12) requires an accompanying adult for under-twelves and asks adults to consider suitability for the particular child. Accompaniment doesn't mean the content is suitable for every ten-year-old. Its advice supports checking the film rather than deciding from the label alone.

He asked a specific question about repeated scares. Take it seriously instead of asking a broad 'You're not frightened, are you?' Adults can first read the [BBFC content advice](https://www.bbfc.co.uk/parents-guide-age-ratings), then explain relevant parts without challenging him to prove he's grown up enough.

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