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I can serve in badminton practice until the coach watches. How should I ask for help with that?

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"Show me the serve you've been practising," the coach said. I tried three and sent two into the net. As soon as he moved to the next court, I managed the same serve several times.

I'm in a small adult class and wanted his feedback. I wasn't being picked on or asked to perform for everyone. Still, the moment he stood beside me, I became so busy thinking about what he'd notice that I barely registered the shuttle.

He said we could look at it again next week. I've already started worrying about that demonstration. I don't want him to stop observing; then I wouldn't get the help I came for.

Would you explain exactly what happened and ask him to observe during ordinary practice, or keep attempting the short demonstration until it becomes less awkward? I'm looking for a way to make the lesson useful, without pretending the three serves he saw were the whole picture or blaming him for watching.

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Tell him both parts: you wanted feedback, and the isolated demonstration felt different from ordinary practice. That's useful information for a lesson. You don't need to claim that your usual serve is perfect or that his observation caused every mistake.

He may need to see the setup before he can offer useful feedback, so ask for a different way of observing rather than no observation. A few agreed practice rallies could give him examples while letting you settle into what you came to do.

Three attempts are three attempts. They show something he can discuss with you, but they don't require a conclusion about your entire ability. Bring the question back to what he noticed and what he wants you to work on, instead of trying to prove the demonstration didn't count.

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